Victims – I Have Something To Say

What I Want To Say to the Person Who Just Escaped My Abuser

I recently learned that someone left one of my abusers. As much as I would love to take her to

Here lies an uncomfortable truth. Narcissists win. They seemingly win all the time, at almost everything. Many of them are

One of the most difficult aspects of leaving a narcissist is that there is no closure. Few people really understand

It is common for the victims of narcissistic abuse to be kind, caring, compassionate people. They are often so tuned

Childhood trauma is a uniquely confusing experience. For many of us, the very people whom we were required to rely

Ending a relationship of any kind can be tough, but when someone tries to disentangle themselves from a narcissist,

Since writing more about the abuse I experienced and its subsequent long-term effects, friends and acquaintances tend to respond in

Writing about the nature of abuse along with my own personal experience of it has been an extremely helpful tool

Recently, Arc of Hope, an (excellent) child abuse recovery and support network on Twitter added me to a list titled

One of the best ways to spot a toxic person is to confront them about their behavior when you’ve been