Abusers Are Weird About Holidays

Holiday season is a difficult time for many abuse survivors, especially if their abusers are family members. Even survivors who have gone No Contact can be quickly overwhelmed by the social pressures of the holidays. They are surrounded by advertisements of happy families in sweaters, beaming at each other while they pass the gravy, andContinue reading “Abusers Are Weird About Holidays”

Trauma Bonding

As someone who experiences complex trauma from child abuse, it’s frustrating when a friend, family member, or say, an entire political party, continues to stay with an abuser even when they know he’s toxic. But I understand it. Trauma bonding, also known as Stockholm Syndrome, happens when the negative experience of abuse becomes so great,Continue reading “Trauma Bonding”