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February 20, 2020 Narcissism / toxic people

Hey, HR: If You Want a Productive Workplace, Maybe Stop Advertising for Psychopaths?

Dear Human Resources Department, Your work culture is toxic. How do I know? Almost inevitably, your advertised job opening goes

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Ten Tools for Trauma Survivors

A couple years ago, I hit a serious wall.  I was emotionally and physically exhausted, but didn’t understand why. Sure,

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August 2, 2018 Narcissism

Love Bombing And Other WMDs

Abuse survivors are usually wary of new relationships for extremely good reasons that are not their fault. Almost always, the

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July 5, 2018 Complex Trauma / Resources for Survivors

When Survivors Dare To Believe They Are Worthy of More

Healing can be a long process, especially from complex trauma. There is an entire lifetime of coping mechanisms that survivors

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July 2, 2018 Complex Trauma

When Fireworks Set You Off

I am one of many who struggle with the loud pops and bangs of the Fourth of July. I am

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June 22, 2018 Narcissism / Resources for Survivors

Narcs Get It Twisted

Conversations with narcissists often start out like this. You make a statement about something that matters to you. It doesn’t

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June 6, 2018 Narcissism

Tearing People Down is not ‘Real World’ Training

I mentor a group of young adults, and was recently handling a situation where another mentor systematically tore down much

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May 18, 2018 Narcissism / Resources for Survivors

Why You Can’t Be in a Narcissistic Relationship ‘Just A Little Bit’

  Ending a relationship of any kind can be tough, but when someone tries to disentangle themselves from a narcissist,

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April 27, 2018 Complex Trauma

Why I Never Keep Secrets

My mother had a knack for triangulating people through toxic secrets. She learned the behavior from her mother. She would

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April 19, 2018 Narcissism

Why Spiritual Abusers Love To Say "God Told Me To"

Whether you run in evangelical circles or not, chances are you’ve encountered someone who has started a sentence with, “God

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